You want to live in Japan...

So yeah, I got some criticism from my homegirl about Max. Well, to be honest I really wanted to help him out and survive in Japan. When he told me that he wanted to say some things but he couldn't say it in japanese. That broke my heart because I know exactly how he feels so I wanted to reach out and help him. So I took him to the church to introduce him to some people and a cheap japanese course to take. I was thinking this can be his opportunity to practice and actually help with japanese, but it turns out that he wanted to only date me and talk to me. Then all of a sudden he started calling and became really really obsessive and very clingy. I would tell him I'm busy with schoolwork and plus I have someone back home too. Oh and that I was really really BUSY esp. with exams and stuff. Well, while I was studying for my exams he calls and tells me he misses me and all this stuff. Then he starts whining and asks me to see him for an hour on thursday. I was really peeved because well I have exams this week and I'm really busy. I decided to be polite and was like well I'll see but I have coffee hour and I'm really busy. Well, last night I was really pisst off because I was talking to my honey and then he calls me. My man asks me to pick up the phone so then he can instigate this issue. I told max that I can't see him tommorow because of coffee hour and stuff. Then he was like WHY I don't understand and started whining. Then I got really mad! So after that I sent him a message saying I was talking to my man back home and that I've been really stressed out and busy!! Then I also told him that he needs to take a damn japanese course too! Because how can you live here for 8 months and have the audacity to not look for a japanese course. I was pretty upset because here I am studying and trying my best everyday in japanese. Then I have someone that is being completely clingy and won't even attempt to take a course nor learn the language. I was pretty upset because how dare you want to live in another country but not learn the language. I asked him why he wanted to live here and basically because he thought it was all glamorous and how cool it was. Well, there's a difference between living and a vacation. A vacation is basically seeing the glitzy glamorous part that's all. But living here is a totally different story because you see everything including the bad parts. I mean yeah, I have people told me that my japanese wasn't as good but that's ok because I came here to learn the language and if they want to be stupid and close minded that's their loss! When I become bilingual I'll be more successful than them so it's all good. But yeah, I'm just fusterated because I did try to give out a helping hand but whatever it's cool well anyways I have to get back to my studies peace!